Valentines day can seem daunting for anyone who doesn't have a significant other. As someone whose dealt with the agony of February 14th's for what seems like centuries now, I can definitely relate. Fortunately, there are tonnes of things you can do to start feeling the love this V-day. I thought I 'd share 5 super simple ways you can treat yo' self this Sunday, and hopefully you'll be smelling the roses for days after!

1. Pamper Yourself

Wake up a little earlier in the morning and run yourself a nice, warm bath. Add some lavender, scented candles and relaxing music (some Bon Iver and Brooke Fraser are my recommendations) and you're basically in another world. Calming yourself is a great way to start the day and will immediately put you in a good mood.

2. Affirm Yourself

After sneaking out of the bathroom, slip into a fluffy bath robe and take some time to meditate. I like to grab my Bible and a daily devotional and think about Gods love. One of my favorite verses to read when I need a boost is Zephaniah 3:17. "The LORD your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing." Knowing you are loved makes it easier to love others, whether they love you or not.

3. Eat the Cookie!

Valentines day is a great excuse to spoil yourself with something sweet. The list of treats you could make to warm up your insides is endless. A good idea would be to bake some cookies or brownies the night before. I've been trying to eat a lot healthier recently, and I was so surprised to find lots of delicious recipes! Try blending raw coco beans, coconut oil and some almond milk together. In a few minutes you'll have an amazing sugar free chocolate spread! Put it on some toasted bread and you're suddenly in heaven ;)

4. Surprise your friends and family with gifts

One of the best ways to feel great on a any day is to shower the people around you with love. Dash over to a craft store and make some personalized gifts. A colorful valentines day card accompanied by a bag of assorted goodies, is enough to make anyone swoon, and for a reasonable price too! Writing notes with words of encouragement is another way to make others feel loved, brightly colored note cards are great for this.

5. Love, don't compare!

Don't try to compare yourself to the people around you. Instead, look at them with love. Its such a great thing that there exists a day where people are appreciated and affirmed. There's an old hym that goes...

"Oh Master grant that I may never seek so much to be consoled as to console,
to be understood, as to understand,
to be loved as to love with all my soul."

This message is refreshing and inspiring, as it reminds us that in a world filled with selfishness, we get to choose to be selfless. In a world filled with emptiness we get to choose to pour our love out. Find someone who isn't being shown love and give as much as you can to them. It is more blessed to give than to receive, and you'll find you are more filled up than before!

I hope you enjoyed these tips! I know you're going to have an amazing Valentines day, but let me know how it goes anyway, and if these helped ;)

Love Always.
Marly
xoxo